Here are ten steps to help increase your intimacy from Joel Block’s indispensable Sex Over 50
Touch each other more frequently by just holding hands and giving hugs
Let them know
Agree to not make sexual frequency a control issue.
Increase your intimacy by fantasizing
Don’t expect your partner to gratify all of your sexual desires. Fantasize and indulge your sensuous nature.
Be a self-starter
Don’t expect your partner to be responsible for turning you on.
Speak your mind
Speak freely. Be specific about how often you feel desire, what it feels like to you and what initiates and enhances these feelings.
Examine your issues. Do you have unexpressed resentment towards your partner? Unexpressed anger?
Separate sex from romance. Romance can, but does not have to, be a prelude to sex. It can be and end in itself.
Make a date
Make a non-demand sex date with your partner. You can be sexual without having intercourse or achieving orgasm.
Move straight to arousal. You don’t have to feel desire to feel arousal.
Set aside time
Set aside non-sexual, one-on-one time for each other. Set up date nights or exercise together.
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